objectivity partnered with amazing grace
Clouded by stereotypes, myths, and pain, addiction is commonly misunderstood. Despite it being the most prevalent crisis facing our communities, we have yet to break through judgmental barriers and avoid treating the subject as taboo; this may be because there are many different perspectives on addictive behaviors; and, unfortunately, most of these perspectives minimize the complexity of the issue. The result experienced by all (addict and loved one) is furthered denial, isolation, and shame.
Unfortunately, this pattern of misunderstanding, judgment, and shame is even perpetuated within the church. While the causes and results of addiction include an abundance of sin, the approach of shame over grace, rejection over healing, condemnation over love, stands in direct contrast to the Biblical example of the God who rescued those in need (even those in need of rescue from themselves—which describes all of us, we sinners in need of salvation). Churches have begun to dive into this arena with programs like Celebrate Recovery, but, still, the prevalence of the response does not meet the intensity of the demand. We can do more. And, stepping up can begin with building simple objectivity partnered with amazing grace. This is not a simple matter that can be easily waved away.
Instead, addiction involves a highly complex internal struggle that feels overwhelming and all-consuming; also, successful treatment involves creatively addressing a wide array of issues either stemming from or fueling the addiction. It all begins, however, with being able to soberly recognize addictive patterns. Learning to be objective, then, involves being able to identify measurable criteria while avoiding comparisons to unrealistic stereotypes. With a heart focused on grace and a mind willing to be fair and objective, help and healing are possible.
It is also important to note that addiction is a devastating struggle that impacts many and is far too often fatal; if you or a loved one are struggling, please seek help – it’s never too late to find hope and freedom. The chains of addiction can be broken.